Are you following your bliss?
Do you do what you want to do?
Do you care about what others are thinking about you?
Do you go out for dinner with people that you don’t want to?
Do you do things because other people think it is good?
Have party’s and invite people you don’t even like?
Go places because you think its what you’re supposed to be doing?
Talk to people you don’t want to talk to?
Do you say yes when you want to say no?
About 12 years ago I had an awakening. It was my day off from work. I got up early, got dressed right away and was ready to go out.
I started to think where am I going? I didn’t know
I just knew it was my day off and felt that I was supposed to go out or be busy. Those words SUPPOSED TO DO can be dropped from your vocabulary.
I was not even thinking what I wanted to do.
In my mind, I thought there was something wrong with me if I wasn’t doing something.
I WAS SO WORRIED WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WOULD THINK. I REALIZED WHAT I DO HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYBODY ELSE.
So I decided I wanted to take a bath, So I filled the Jacuzzi and threw in a selenite crystal.
Lit a couple of candles and enjoyed my bath It was 2.30 in the afternoon, and I had a fantastic day.
For the first time in a long time, I felt free.
It was the first time I had done something just for me, do exactly what I wanted to do. At that time I owned a restaurant and went to work 7 days a week. I had a nonstop life.
Taking charge of my life and taking that bath rather than keeping busy was a big change in my life. Its when I realized I needed to make myself happy first.
DO OTHER PEOPLE CARE ABOUT WHAT I DO?
It only matters what I think.
At first, I thought I was selfish,
But for the first time, I felt free.
With that experience I started to make little changes in my life, I was finding the true me. What does make Raven happy..
I looked at my relationships with work, my friends, and my family.
From then on it has been work in progress,
THE TIME IS NOW FOR YOU TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND START DOING WHAT TRULY MAKES YOU HAPPY.
Here are some thoughts to ponder:
Listen to your inner voice
What is it saying?
Does my work align with what brings me joy?
Are the activities I’m doing align with what makes me the happiest?
What does makes me happiest?
What makes my heart sing or makes me excited?
We all have these thoughts how you are supposed to live your life a certain way, its different for all of us, but for some reason, we think there are things we are “suppose” to do.
Go to a certain school.Take a job even if you don’t like what you will be doing. Hang out with people that don’t inspire or align with what we enjoy.
We are programmed at such an early age of what we are supposed to do That we forgot to think what we would like to do. We would go to someone’s house just to make them happy. What happened? We need to make ourselves happy first. If we are happy we can shine light onto other By being yourself, You can feel a freedom A sense of self-worth. Knowing at every moment, you are following your true bliss.
When you are following your bliss, things come your way; you have more fun. You find the people you want to spend time with.
When you start making small inner changes, your life just starts changing around you. Things just happen. New experience falls into your life. The moments that are just amazing, something turns out fantastic or the way they should. Anything can happen when you are true to your purpose.
Life gets to be an exciting adventure.
So let the fun begin
You are now asking yourself, how do I do that
It happens slowly. But the fun part is the journey not where you are going. It is right now.
So how can I do this?
It takes a conscious thought every time you are going to make a decision
Listen to that inner voice.
Do I want to do that?
Will it make me happy?
Am I doing it for the wrong reason or to make someone else happy?
Is there something else I want to do?
Why am I doing it?
Celebrate every moment and every day like it is your last.
Time to align with your true purpose and inner peace
I would love to hear from you.
Share the small changes you’ve started to make and ways you been following your bliss in the comment field
Stay inspired, make things happen,
Awaken… the spirit that is within you…
Ignite … the fire that inspires you..
Align… with your hearts desires.
Susan E Brown